Should gay couple adopt children? Are gay couples capable of raising children with as much devotion as a normal couple? The answer is certainly a “No! ”. Adoption of children by homosexual couples is a very controversial topic. National Adoption week in the United Kingdom in October 2000 saw a drive to encourage gay couples to adopt, in order to find homes for thousands of orphan children. At present, many democratic countries like United States of America, United Kingdom, Denmark, Norway, Sweden,and Iceland have regarded gay adoption as an important area of gay rights.
However, I believe that gay couples should not adopt children, as children of gay couples will be confused about their own sexual identity, will be raised in a promiscuous environment,and will fail to understand traditional values. First of all, gay couples are abnormal, which will create an uncertainty for the children. Research in the US (Univ. of Illinois Law Review, 1997) finds that children raised in homosexual households are significantly more likely to question their sexuality. In addition, a child’s primary role models are his or her parents.
Raising a heterosexual child in a gay household gives the a distorted view of minority sexuality, just as a girl brought up by two men would fail to benefit from a feminine influence or a boy would fail to benefit from masculinity if he is raised alongside only girls. Usually, children from gay families are discriminated against in a society and are bullied. This can have immense effect in their psychological development. They will be discouraged,and will feel inferior, frustrated, depressed and will be unable to face the challenge of this fast running orld. The upbringing of children by gay couple is immoral. To legally allow adoption by gay couples is to encourage what is an unnatural upbringing.
Gay adoption has deep implications because it forces a radical redefinition of marriage and family. Research shows that the Annual Report on Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual,and Transgender Domestic Violence highlights the occurrence of domestic violence in the homosexual community, perhaps as much as a 33% rate. Heterosexual adoption has a domestic violence rate around 1%. Such iolence will change the child’s perspective of goodand bad things, for the worse So, the child will be raised in an immoral environment. Another thing that the children of gay couples will fail to understand is their tradition. Many religions and cultural practices term homosexuality as a crime, a sin. A neighborhood with such an environment will pile up discrimination and pressure on the gay parents and the children. Hence, gay couples will stay away from religious practice sand shun social events in order to escape discrimination.
Speaking of the experience of my close friend, who had gay parents, he never really had a chance to go to churches. He was unable to socialize well,and he ended up being completely blind to religious practices. My friend also became a homeosexual when he was in high school, i remember other students would make fun of him and call him names. He told me that he was at his breaking point and wanted to sommit sucicide. I feel that root of his problem is because he didnt grow up with a mother and a father but with two male couples, this was the root of his problems.
In the end the children of gay parents will not have any knowledge of cultural and social practices. Some gay parents might have a religous background but most of them do not. Children with not be able to understand themselves or any type of religious practice. Summing it up, adoption by gay couple is morally wrong,and children are more likely to change gay themselves. It will confuse the children’s sexuality, will provide an immoral environment for growth,and will prevent the child from social practices. Therefore, I strongly feel that gay couples should not adopt children.